Frequently Asked Questions

What can I expect to happen during a meeting? What services? What is a GirlFriend Experience (GFE)

All the girls in Dreamgirls offer a Girlfriend experience which is kissing, cuddling, massage, oral both ways and protected sex.  Most of the girls will prefer the oral to be protected too (especially on first meetings) and if thats not what you expect please feel free to ask during the booking process, however french kissing and unprotected oral will always be at the girls discretion. Consequently please do not be offended if the girls stick with this approach to their protection as it is precisely that, protection, for the girls in a high risk activity.

Other services which are commonly requested and not specified above are wholly at the girls discretion, and could potentially incur an extra charge if the girl decides to do so, and this will be made clear at either the booking stage or at the outset of the meeting. 

 

How do I make an appointment?

Once you have chosen your preferred escort, please choose two or three ladies you would like to meet so you will have the option in case one of the ladies you have chosen is not available. You can book by messaging or calling our phone number 07391 114975 or 07748 009905 or by completing an online booking form in the website. Please note that in order to ensure our escorts safety, we may be unable to accept a booking from a new client unless you can supply us with all the details needed to book an escort. If you are calling from a residential address a landline number or the surname relating to the address the escort is to attend may be requested as a proof of address. If you are staying at a hotel we will require your room number and the surname the hotel was booked in or the hotel booking reference if there is no phone in your hotel room. Once the booking has been confirmed get ready and look forward to meeting the escort of your desires.

How much notice is required?

At least 3 hours notice is usually required, however this depends on your location and therefore could be a little less or longer. Many clients choose to book several days in advance which is best to ensure you can see your chosen escort. We very much appreciate being given as much notice as possible. Its stating the obvious of course but the girls want to make and complete the bookings as much as you do and will do whatever is possible to attend and to be on time. However it should be noted that Devon and Cornwall  is a vast area and the meeting place and the girls location may, and most likely will, be many miles apart. Every effort will be made to arrive on time but the distance required and often the route needed to be travelled can easily lead to delayed travel and we gratefully request you show patience and understanding to this possible cause of irritation and frustration - always please remember the girls do not want to be late and they also frequently have a long journey home after your meeting too.

Where will we meet?

In your home, hotel room or even your office as agreed with the agency.

Can I visit the lady at her place?/Do you offer incalls?

Rarely, we do not usually offer incalls, we are primarily an outcall only agency, the escort will come to your hotel, residence or office to meet you. 

Are the photographs real?

All the photographs on this website are of the girl described. Many, if not most, of the photographs are taken with our chosen photographer and can be wholly validated as real and genuuine. What you see is what you get!

The only caveat to this statement is that many of the girls have distinctive tattoos and in our continued effort to retain the individual girls anonymity many, if not all, tattoos and other distinctive markings are removed from all photos or body replicas are used so the girls that arrive at your door will be the same girl but may / will frequently have tattoos.

However new girls are required to submit their own photographs and we cannot guarantee the accuracy of those photos being representative of the girls at that time (tattoos and markings will still be removed) -  where we have been instrumental in taking the photos used or have secured visual confirmation that the photos reflect the girl presently we have marked the availability with a (V)

The escorts have their faces blurred. Why?

Most of our high class escorts don't wish to be recognised, and want to remain discreet in the Devon and Cornwall area. Our escorts are all hand-picked and are all very beautiful and attractive. We have met EVERY escort in person, and the pictures on the site (where validated) are genuine pictures of the actual girl. We never publish photos with the girls faces and will never send face photos either.

What are your rates?

The fees for each escort are displayed on their profile pages. You MUST agree the length of booking and total fee with the agency in advance of the booking, although you can extend the booking by calling the agency before the agreed time expires. There are no 'hidden' extras' unless you require something outside of the escort's role as defined in the tab 'Girlfriend experience'. It is stated on the escorts page what her hourly rates are. Some areas incur additional travelling costs or a minimum booking time, however if there are any additional travel costs then the agency will agree them with you in advance of the booking. In fact for every booking made you will receive a booking form stating the Escort you are meeting, time & place of meeting, duration and all the fees involved - we ask that you confirm all the details in the form, by a return message, before we ask the girl to leave home to attend the meeting.

How do I pay for my appointment?

We accept payment in GBP Pounds Sterling. Payment should be made within 10 minutes of her arrival for the meeting, Please do not be offended if your companion requests this or checks the amount - she has been asked to do so by us. If you choose to pay by Bank Transfer that is possible and if you request that we shall advise the bank details in advance of the meeting as part of the booking form and for new clients recommend you transfer £1 and advise us to confirm receipt to ensure when the larger fee is transferred you can be confident its going to the right place.

What do I need to do if i have a financial dispute with one of the girls ?

Very infrequently a client may feel letdown or disappointed by the level of service of one of the girls (usually over time or content) and it is essential the dispute is addressed and resolved with the girl before she leaves the booking - once you have paid her the arrangement is completed and the booking is then wholly between the client and the escort that has been paid. These types of dispute are occasionally inevitable but are wholly the resposibility of the client and the escort -  Dreamgirls are not employers of the escorts and cannot be held responsible foe the meeting content.

Are the prices negotiable?

The rates are stated on the website and are non negotiable.

Does the lady have to rush off after 1 hour?

No... our ladies do not clock watch, however it is unreasonable to book for 1 hour and expect the lady to stay for 1 hour 30 minutes, If you would like the lady to stay longer please book a longer appointment. We recommend to our girls that, to avoid any form of clock watching, they set an alarm on their mobile phone just 5 or 10 minutes before the scheduled end time to avoid a 'rushed' conclusion.

What if I decide to cancel?

You can cancel at anytime up to 2 hours before the appointment, more if you are not within the escorts area. If we are not given the minimum notice required a cancellation fee of £60-80 (depending on distance travelled) will be payable. This only applies to confirmed appointments. Should this cancellation fee not be paid then that client will be banned from using the agencies services again.

I have specific requirements or needs that i would like to be provided at the appointment but are NOT specified in the GFE definition - What should i do?

The best approach will be to clearly articulate what you wish to happen at your booking in a message , whether its a foot fetish or a domination need or anything in between and we shall either confirm if it can be accommodated or whether its categorically NOT part of the service and you can then choose whether you wish to proceed or not. 

 

If you have any further questions please message the agency number and one of the staff there will be very happy to answer those questions for you.

 

 

 

A Dreamgirls guide to your safety

 

 

 

As in any profession there are inherent risks within every job and knowing and adhering to safety guidelines is essential and escorting is no different. We take your safety very seriously and these guidelines outline the processes we presently have in place and many tips for you to use to ensure your continued success within the profession and good health.

 

 

 

ALWAYS trust your gut feelings

 

Appearances can be deceptive and you should never assume that someone is 'okay' and judge them by the way they look. You should always be on your guard around both new and existing clients. Remember that if something doesn't feel right about a person, you always have the right to turn them down. So always trust your gut feelings and ensure you're safe first.

 

 

 

General safety advice when meeting and negotiating with clients

 

Whenever you speak to a client, be confident and assertive and remember that you are in control of any services you provide during the time he has booked with you. From the outset, you should make it clear what services you are willing to offer and most importantly, you should tell your client what you are not prepared to do. By saying what your limits are, you lessen the risk of things potentially going wrong.

 

Prices will have been agreed and confirmed with the client in advance of you arriving for the appointment so there should never be any need to discuss prices. You should ALWAYS be paid upon arrival, or by bank transfer and you must ensure the amount advised to you is the amount paid or transfered money is cleared and confirmed before the meeting commences.

 

Regardless of the client, it makes sense to carry a personal safety alarm with you. Make sure that you keep it somewhere in easy reach, such as in your pocket or your bag.

 

It also goes without saying that you should have a mobile phone with you. Keep it topped up with credit and ensure it is fully charged as this is your means of communicating to us that you are safe on arrival and departure and in the event you should need to contact us at any point during the appointment.

 

 

 

 How to get ready for work

 

 Almost all our clients desire discretion from you when you arrive in their home area or hotel so always ensure you dress casually (See below Getting dressed for work) and ensure you have all the clothes you wish to wear in the appointment in a bag for you to change into when at the clients. Your bag should also have condoms, lube, safety alarm, torch and any toys you use professionally should you feel the need to use any of these items in your time with your client. 

 

 

 

The dangers of mixing alcohol and drugs with escort work

 

 

 

It's a well-known fact that alcohol and drugs will affect how you act and think. As you can appreciate, they aren't a good idea to use when you're working as an escort.

 

Our advice is to always refrain from any drug use whatsoever and in the case of alcohol only a minimal amount if any. It's crucial that you remain alert, stable and aware of what's going on around you at all times. Alcohol and drugs can and will impair your ability to do those things.

 

Furthermore we will never accept drugs as a form of payment for your time and you need to adhere to the same principals. 

 

On the client side if he appears drunk or under the influence of drugs it is recommended you decline the job - obviously this is dependent upon the condition of the client but you should always know that the option to decline and leave (and of course to return the payment) is yours and will be supported.

 

 

 

 What to do if your clients offer you drinks and food

 

The chances are high that your client will offer you something to drink or eat. If that happens, what should you do?

 

First of all, you should not accept any drink that you have not seen prepared to ensure the risk of any 'spiking' is removed. Obviously this guide can be relaxed in the presence of established / regular clients but always be aware and vigilant

 

When it comes to food, only eat it if it's been pre-packaged (Sandwiches or crisps) and still in a sealed wrapper but a general rule would be not to accept food in your appointments, again this rule can probably be relaxed with regular clients and for longer stays you should be using restaurants or room service too.

 

 

 

Getting dressed for work

 

It's vital that you keep your clothing simple. As a generic guide for your awareness try not to wear clothing that restrict your movement too much and dress casually and appropriately.

 

Always ensure, unless specifically requested by the client, you arrive at your meeting in casual attire and certainly not in a manner that may draw attention to you -  many of the clients do not want neighbours to know their business so arriving looking like Julia Roberts in Prety Woman is definitely not recommended

 

 When it comes to body piercings, it's probably best not to have any as they could get pulled and cause you injuries however if your piercings are a selling point with your clients, be clear with them about how they should get used. After all: you don't want to cause injury to yourself or your clients.

 

 

 

 Out-calls to a client's home or hotel

 

 We will provide address and any directions required to find the place to meet. For hotel bookings we will validate the booking with either a booking reference or a photo of the hotel room key.

 

Upon arrival and after you have been paid you MUST message the agency to advise you are safe and message again upon departure - from the agency perspective should we not hear from you at the timed conclusion of your meeting we shall commence calling you and the client and should we feel it necessary alert local authorities -  it is vital these 2 messages are sent to us.

 

To ensure we are able to get you to the address, see you are safely there and monitor your leaving we strongly recommend you use some software on your phone called Glympse or live location which is tracking software - this will also assist should you be unable to find the clients address and we will be able to get you to the right road using this method. We will discuss the use of Glympse with you individually should you prefer to 'Live location'.

 

Clients frequently ask four questions, not to use a condom, to go privately with them and give them your phone number and your real name - in all these 4 cases the answer MUST always be no / never. Any relaxation in these items is a potential danger to your personal safety and may severely impact your longer term earning potential with the agency. As a further safeguard try to ensure you take nothing into the meeting with your personal details, such as a driving licence, leave these in your car or at least ensure the bag is never out of your possession, should you need to pop to the bathroom or similar.

 

In all cases should any client display behaviour that you consider inappropriate or intimidating you will need to report that to the agency who will review and potentially place a ban on that client to protect any future girls that may have gone to see that client. We monitor a national website called Client Eye and check clients against that database and can add clients names to it also if their behaviour warrants such an action.

 

Always set an alarm on your phone for 5 minutes before the time your appointment ends to give you a little time to wrap up and leave appropriately. If the client wishes to extend the length of the meeting you must message to advise us and we will advise the fee you should collect from them in advance of the extension commencing.

 

 

 

 Stay safe by using protection and contraception

 

Obviously once you meet with the client the activities that take place between you and he is entirely at your discretion and as such one of the most significant risks anyone in escorting will face is becoming pregnant or on the receiving end of an STI. That's why it is absolutely essential to use protection and contraception.

 

Make it absolutely clear that your clients must use protection. If they refuse to do so, you are well within your rights to walk away. You should only do what you feel comfortable doing. Many clients will try to entice you not to use protection but it is essential to your safety (and for that of future clients) and well being that you always use condoms.

 

Another thing you should do is to have regular STI checks. Doing so will give you peace of mind knowing that you haven't been the recipient of an STI. Plus, it gives your clients peace of mind too.

 

You can usually have free STI checks from local sexual health clinics and hospitals. Plus, it means that you don't have to make your GP aware of your occupation.